少说多做 人生在勤 Be diligent 褪色记忆不消失 Memory will never be faded away

    五月底去了趟黄山，感觉还是不错的。不过在我们国家，估计只要有名字的地方就不能去，人太多；最好的旅游方式是自己去些个没有什么名气，但是风景依然不错的地方。风景，关键的是心情；游玩，重要的是同伴。

飞来石

海龟？

那个什么什么来着。。。

慈光阁

挑夫

这个被称为青狮的石头我怎么看都觉得不像狮子。。。或许是隐晦的生殖崇拜？

在浙江境内的某个溪

海棠都在冬天开了。。。今年的天气啊

人生若只如初见
何事秋风悲画扇
等闲变却故人心
却道故人心易变

骊山语罢清宵半
泪雨零铃终不怨
何如薄幸锦衣郎
比翼连枝当日愿

1. Your vacation begins after you defend your thesis.
2. In research, what matters is what is right, and not who is right.
3. In research and other matters, your adviser is always right, most of the time.
4. Act as if your adviser is always right, almost all the time.
5. If you think you are right and you are able to convince your adviser, your adviser will be very happy.
6. Your productivity varies as (effective productive time spent per day)1,000.
7. Your productivity also varies as 1/(your delay in analysing acquired data)1,000.
8. Take data today as if you know that your equipment will break tomorrow.
9. If you would be unhappy to lose your data, make a permanent back-up copy of them within five minutes of acquiring them.
10. Your adviser expects your productivity to be low initially and then to be above threshold after a year or so.
11. You must become a bigger expert in your thesis area than your adviser.
12. When you cooperate, your adviser's blood pressure will go down a bit.
13. When you don't cooperate, your adviser's blood pressure either goes up a bit or it goes down to zero.
14. Usually, only when you can publish your results are they good enough to be part of your thesis.
15. The higher the quality, first, and quantity, second, of your publishable work, the better your thesis.
16. Remember, it's your thesis. You (!) need to do it.
17. Your adviser wants you to become famous, so that he/she can finally become famous.
18. Your adviser wants to write the best letter of recommendation for you that is possible.
19. Whatever is best for you is best for your adviser.
20. Whatever is best for your adviser is best for you.

  同意。

引用

婚嫁交易让婚姻变味

读者：lfinger 2009-09-14

今天，在FT上看到一篇文章《要么一步到位，要么成为剩女》，该文章虽然对剩女由来的解释过于单一，

但其深入剖析了现代男女在物质社会中的婚嫁交易所带来的后果，让我感触很深。

我认为，有一种观点正在现代年轻人的观念中流行，那就是女性要求男性必须要有房子、车子、票子，

并普遍认为找到这样条件的老公，就算不幸福也很幸运。男性则在这种残酷的现实中定下先立业后成家

的远大志向，再拿着自己奋斗来的筹码，以为可以找到一个自己心目中那样传统顾家的好女人。最后，

真的都能如愿以偿吗？

现代人的工作节奏越来越快，生活中又需要处处留心防备诱惑和欺诈。因为利益、因为名利、因为虚荣，

人们戴上了面具，承载着压力。唯有在家里，面对自己的爱人，可以卸下防备、敞开心扉。

然而物质文化常常让人们看不清自己的方向，以为得到了更多的物质，就可以让自己的精神得到解脱，

当这种物质文化侵入到婚姻，让原本应该相濡以沫的婚姻变成一种婚嫁交易的时候，注定得到的不是当

初想要的幸福，是寂寞。

写到这里，我奉劝正准备步入婚姻殿堂的人们再仔细想想，你们之间有爱吗？你们的爱纯净吗？为婚姻

留个纯净的门，让另一个人可以共同分享那心里保留的稍许净土。

婚姻是为了成就共同进退的一对，而不是为了拴住各取所需的两个人。

看了这篇文章, 我很感慨, 如果婚姻中没有感情, 那不就是二个人比一个人更寂寞吗? 也感慨现代人很可怜,

已经不剩什么可以不必计较的了. 这样要获得内心的宁静真的是不可能的, 越来越的人需要咨商也是可以预

见的了!!! 反而, 看着德国客户与我分享的传统婚礼场面,  简单而甜蜜, 勿庸置疑地觉得他们是因爱而结合,

王子公主从此过上幸福快乐的日子!!!

说不定我也是多虑了, 物质丰富到了一个地步, 自然就会回归精神面, 这是人性的规律吧?!